I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys. I have dark hair and eyes. It's not what I can change. I know it sounds stupid but I can't stop envying and feeling inferior. Please teach me what I should do with my feeling

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

You are who you pretend to be. Start to act like you were on the stage playing the role of a person you want to be like. Continue this on the stage of life and presto you turn into this person. It does take work.

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

Be very wary. Envy is one of the deadliest sins. You want to feel absolute freedom? turn away from this sin and love, respect yourself, and be contented with it.

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

you have a general lack of self confidence. try makeing a list about the things like about your self. it will make you feel better:)

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

Hair dye and contacts.

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

Its just a different look u have! Having dark hair and eyes gives you a more Mediterranean appeal, like tall, dark, and handsome, so be proud! Light hair makes you twice as likely to get cancers and junk, so know you are ten times more genetically superior, if you're not feeling emotionally superior! If you have the strength to go out and declare that you deviate from the so-called norm or society, then why would you feel upset that someone else has a feature different from yours? Stay fab!

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

Why change yourself? Everyone has different tastes in what they find attractive. There are those out there who might well find you more attractive than the guys you spoke of.

As for you being gay, there's absolutely nothing gay about acknowledging someone's good looks, same sex or not. I can count numerous celebrities, as well as people in my everyday life, who I think are handsome. It doesn't make me gay, it just makes me appreciate the physical attributes of a certain person.

Beware though, I've seen throughout my life that those who are naturally attractive can be some of the most boring and shallow people you'll ever want to meet.

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

As my pal Judge Judy often says, "Beauty fades, dumb is forever."

It's part of the human condition to want what we can't have. I know I often feel envious when I see a cute guy because I think to myself "Gee, that person must be really happy. He probably has a fulfilling sex life." But it's probably not true. Imagine being drop-dead gorgeous. Wouldn't you get tired of constantly being hit on by people you didn't find attractive? Wouldn't you find it frustrating that people couldn't see past your appearance? They might even think that because you are so good looking, you obviously don't have a brain.

The bottom line is; you're not inferior, you're you.

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

Is there something you do that you're good at? Do you have a hobby? If so, try to become proficient at that. It will add self-confidence to everything you do.

In the meantime, seek counseling.

(I'm gay, too.)

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

Envy is a rancid beast.

Find your own beauty and appreciate what is - to want for something else is a destructive path that will lead to misery and despair. Inferiority and superiority .. they are both illusions.

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

why put your self into catastrophy.... all the things in this world have an artificial equivalents. You can have your hair dyed too. you can wear colored contact lences. You are under "identity crisis" I bet. You can consult your friend and they can suggest the best posture and style you wanted to make-over. You can read magazined which could mold and shape your personality.

Having attracted to cute guys was just a normal thing to happen specially when you are at the adolescence period. that means you are now gettign mature... you can have friend and many cute boys will come to you as long as you are true to your self and well manered behavior....Got it...

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

We want we haven't got when we are hung up on what we do have. I believe the issue lies more with what you think or believe about your own racial/family heritage. Your looks may have come from one or both parents. Look at what you think and feel about the parent you look most like. If you have anger, frustration or pain to do with your parents or family, that could easily explain why you don't like your looks and want to have the opposite kind. Perhaps someone you like once said they prefer blonde and blue eyes and you took that as a rejection.

If you can discover the reason why you don't like your own looks or heritage you can work on healing whatever pain you have to do with that. It is about you, not them!

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

no you are not gay is yust that guys look nice to other guys.

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

I have dark hair and dark eyes also and yes I am gay, but I know one thing for sure, I am most certainly not envious or inferior to any of the cuter guys out there. You must realise that regardless of how good looking a person is, there will always be a better looking person around the corner, as long as you trust and love yourself you should be o.k. hunny.

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

There are plenty of gays around who will be happy to have you

I envy and feel inferior so much when I saw light hair coloured, blue or green eyed cute guys.(I'm gay.)?

No, not everyone feels the same way you do.

I hope it remains that way because if we all turn gay there will be very few people on this planet in one hundred years.